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Or just that they're utterly boring, you have nothing in common, and you can't wait for the date to be over so you can hang out with your friends.That is when dating can truly turn into a huge waste of time for you and everyone else involved.Granted, there's a lot to be said for dating around.Spending time with multiple people in the same calendar month isn't, on its own, a sign that you aren't legitimately interested in any of them.
On the other hand, if you're totally into someone but they wont commit to you exclusively and keep seeing other people, then they're a waste of your time.Sometimes it takes a while to really open up to someone, and sometimes the exclusivity discussion really hasn't occurred because you're genuinely not at that place yet.But sometimes all these excuses are merely placeholders for ending your relationship with someone.It's generally pretty easy to know when you're not wasting your time: When you've got butterflies in anticipation of seeing someone, and when you see them it's wonderful and awesome and everyone is throwing their heads back laughing and you feel like you're being treated well, listened to, and respected. Sometimes though, it can be more difficult to tell if you are wasting your time.When you're dating, you often find yourself making excuses like, "Maybe our next date will be better," or "I'm taking my time deciding," or "It's not like we said we were official." All those can be legitimate too—sometimes first dates are awful and second dates are wonderful.