First impressions and dating
I know this because she is still smiling (it’s been 20 minutes) and I am still very impressed at how smooth and attractive he was.
So, if you are in a coffee shop right now – or anywhere else that you may want to make a great first impression with a woman, use the following advice and try to make a woman around you smile and feel good.
That may sound like something you don’t want to do if you are only trying to attract women, but believe me, the science behind it will help you attract women and make them want more, which is likely your goal with women.
The feeling of love at first sight (heart pounding and complete focus on him) makes a woman think ‘I want him,’ and that is the exact thing you want her to think about you!
If you can make a woman feel as though she is in love with you, then you will win her over.
You need to create that ‘love at first sight’ feeling during your first impression.
This kind of movement sends the message that you are not comfortable in your own body. What you want to do is keep your body in control and have a relaxed demeanor about you.
You should use gestures, but use them when appropriate.
It revs up the ‘love at first sight’ engine and creates a powerful attraction! People who are in love gaze into each other’s eyes. It creates an intense feeling of love and connection.
I got the desire to put this up on the blog today because as I sit here right now, in a coffee shop, I am getting a lot of first impressions. And I can tell you that he made an awesome first impression with her.
But, an older woman beside me just got hit on by an older gentleman!
If you approach her quickly, she will still be in that state of arousal, but if you wait too long, she will start to form an opinion about you that could form a negative opinion.
In short, instead of letting her from her opinion about you purely by imagination, you want to get in there and do and say things that leave the first impression you want to leave.